Heart contracts; numbness and tears collide. Ten dead, 13 wounded; this time in Santa Fe. If we're ever to end the bloodbaths, we have to put gender at the center of the national conversation about mass murders.
"I am over the passivity of good men. Where the hell are you? You live with us, make love with us, father us, befriend us, brother us, get nurtured and mothered and eternally supported by us, so why aren't you standing with us?" —Eve Ensler Forget Harvey Weinstein, and Bill Cosby, and Bill O'Reilly, and Roger Ailes. But do remember the women. Remember all the women, famous and unknown, who have survived everything from catcalls to rape for as far back as well — forever.