Nov. 25 kicked off the annual 16 Days of Activism against gender-based violence. At no time has this work been more necessary than now. From rampant sexual harassment and assault, domestic violence and sexual trafficking, women across the globe face gender-based violence at horrifying rates.
I'd like to start with my recent personal experience, although it was definitely not the first time I have experienced it in my 45 years. I share these experiences because while there has been important attention paid lately to men in power abusing subordinate women in the workplace or other realms, it's essential to remember that everyday men commit these same acts of harassment, abuse and assault. Not because their work position affords them any particular power over a woman but because the general sense that they are entitled to do and act as they please. It is prevalent in how many boys and men are socialized. Not long ago, I experienced unwanted sexual conduct from someone half my age. He had no social power over me other than the fact that he's a male in a culture in which some males are taught that things are theirs for the taking. Likewise, on my campus I have been catcalled by boys recently out of high school who feel entitled to yell repulsive things. A 15-year-old girl I know was harassed by much older men while wearing a caroling costume for a holiday event. This is ubiquitous, so normalized, that people are surprised by all the allegations emerging. We should not be. We should be horrified, outraged, but not surprised.
Here is why we should not be surprised: Statistics have long shown the scope of these problems. Studies found that some one-third of American women experience sexual harassment in the workplace. According to the World Health Organization, nearly one-third of the world's women has endured physical or sexual intimate partner violence. Domestic violence kills more women worldwide than civil wars. Far more people in America, largely women, have been killed by their partners than were U.S forces in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, combined. American women are twice as likely to suffer domestic violence as breast cancer. In the U.S., more women are injured from domestic violence than from car accidents, rapes and muggings combined. A woman in the U.S. is sexually assaulted every 98 seconds, according to the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network. Women and young girls are sold into sexual slavery, not just overseas but on American soil. They are recruited from websites like Backpage and Craigslist with promises of lucrative modeling or acting jobs. More than 3,500 sex trafficking cases were reported to the National Human Trafficking Resource Center in 2016, a figure that underestimates the scope of the problem given that most instances are not reported.
Males in powerful positions are even more able to exploit and demean women and those they see as powerless, as these people fear they will lose their jobs, their reputation and even their lives if they resist or if they tell anyone. This is tremendously clear with the spate of sexual harassment, misconduct and assault allegations being levied against politicians, media moguls and celebrities, including but sadly not limited to Bill Cosby, Bill O'Reilly, Harvey Weinstein, Kevin Spacey, Charlie Rose, Matt Lauer, Garrison Keillor, Roy Moore, Al Franken and of course, Donald Trump.
What are we to do? The good news is there is a lot already happening. New laws are criminalizing revenge pornography, helping to stop males from sharing provocative photos and imagery as a means of controlling women. Women are speaking out about the harassment, abuse and assault, and refusing to be silent. Legal settlements like the recent one in Seattle that three women who were sold into sexual slavery when they were 13 to 15 years old were awarded against Backpage. Activists are continuing to strategize and build on the momentum from last years' Women's marches.
In South Florida, I am fortunate to be able to work with a nonprofit organization, No More Tears, which helps victims of many of these forms of gender-based violence. This unique organization is entirely volunteer-run and provides services that allow victims to heal and to build happy and healthy lives. Additional information about No More Tears is available at www.nomoretearsusa.org. I am also co-organizer of the College Brides Walk, a dating and domestic violence awareness campaign that reaches several thousand high school and college youth. More information can be found at www.collegebrideswalk.com.
We know more such organizations are needed nationwide.
It is my hope that increased conversation about these issues is indeed a cultural tipping point.
Laura Finley, Ph.D., teaches in the Barry University Department of Sociology & Criminology and is syndicated by PeaceVoice.