Look for the helpers; be a helper
Monday, members of Congress sent thoughts and prayers to Las Vegas. The Onion, a satire site, posts: "NRA Says Mass Shootings Just The Unfortunate Price Of Protecting People's Freedom To Commit Mass Shootings" and "'No Way To Prevent This,' Says Only Nation Where This Regularly Happens."
Guns are big business. This year, they've looked to keep shooters' eardrums safe, through the sale of silencers. Who cares that some students at the Virginia Tech shooting in 2007 credited hearing the shots fired with keeping them at a safe distance?
Mass shootings are good for business. On the Monday following the deadliest mass shooting in American history, it was quickly reported that: "Shares of Sturm Ruger (RGR) were up 4 percent, while American Outdoor Brands, the company formerly known as Smith & Wesson, gained more than 3 percent. A company named Olin, which owns the Winchester brand of ammunition, rose 6 percent to an all-time high."
Guns are highly profitable and our representatives have been bought and paid for by special interests like the National Rifle Association and the businesses Congress is entrusted to regulate. A year ago, the Washington Post reported, "Since 1998, the National Rifle Association has donated $3,781,803 to current members of Congress."
There are so many headlines like the current Newsweek, "Congress Has Basically Done Nothing On Gun Control Since Sandy Hook Shooting," and they tell stories of polarized politics and a failure to act. Even in the areas of huge public support, like broad agreement on policies to ensure responsible gun ownership, nothing happens. We're going about it wrong.
What can we do with this apparently endless cycle of tragedy? The endemic problem of gun violence is real, but hope need not be lost.
Fred Rogers, the famous Mr. Rogers, shared the advice his mother gave him. As a boy, when he would see scary things on the news, "My mother would say to me, 'Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.' To this day, especially in times of disaster, I remember my mother's words, and I am always comforted by realizing that there are still so many helpers — so many caring people in this world." Conditions are grim, but they are not hopeless.
With the shooting in Las Vegas, just like the others, there are always more people doing good than the person or people doing bad. Countless people put themselves in harm's way, sometimes as literal shields. Never forget, the good outnumber the bad.
Oct. 2 also serves as the 148th anniversary of the birth of Mohandas K. Gandhi and we can look to his wisdom. "In a gentle way, you can shake the world," and "Power is of two kinds. One is obtained by the fear of punishment and the other by acts of love. Power based on love is a thousand times more effective and permanent then the one derived from fear of punishment." When we focus on love, like the kind Mother Teresa is credited with: "We can do no great things — only small things with great love," we focus on what we can do.
Do not forget the strength of truth. On Sept. 11, 1906, Gandhi introduced the world to satyagraha, truth-force or soul-force. He opposed a law discriminating against Asians that was passed by the British colonial government of the Transvaal in South Africa. Gandhi's campaign forced an end to that law, and Gandhi's teaching show us how we can nonviolently change the world. We see we see many more cases of non-violence working, from civil rights and bus boycotts in the U.S. to resisting the Nazis in WWII Europe to Gandhi's successful campaign in Africa and his Salt March in India.
It's true, citizens are 20 times more likely to die of gun violence than those of other developed nations but it's also true that we can change the world if we truly commit to it. Like Willy Wonka says: "If you want to view paradise, simply look around and view it. Anything you want to, do it; want to change the world... there's nothing to it."
Wim Laven, syndicated by PeaceVoice, worked on reconstruction in Sri Lanka after the 2004 tsunami, and is an instructor in international conflict management at Kennesaw State University.